I'm not real sure about Virginia's geography (it's been a long time!), but in a little town near Richmond (Midlothian, Va.), and in Hampton, there is "Q BBQ
" run and operated by Tuffy Stone.
I haven't ever been to either place, but if I know Tuffy like I think I know him, it will be excellent food.
If the name sounds a little familiar, yeah he's the same Tuffy "the Professor" Stone that was on the BBQ Pitmasters show.
Good luck with your quest for a whole hog.
of course, Myron might make the drive if he isn't busy with TV and MooVies.