Fatz, I'm not a fan of deleting posts...but, you asked a sincere question looking for help and the middle of your orginal thread turned in to your tatoo (not your doing of course)! I don't think that is what you were looking for so I went ahead and spilt these posts off the original thread and stuck it here!
No offense to anyone, but, I wanted to keep Fatz's thread on topic as it was a good question! 8)